
We then had to change in to our yukatas, summer cotton kimonos. Since it looks like a bathrobe, that is how I wore it. I peaked into the hallway and saw an ancient maid and with gestures, I asked her if I was wearing it right and she ushered me back into our room and with another young woman dressed me up. It was embarrassing but helpful. I was very grateful. These two days were full of learning and it was hard sometimes. Staying here, was the first time it felt like we left Boise.
The dinners lasted for almost two hours. It was fancy for even the Japanese people, a very special place. The food was incredible. Probably the best sushami that we will ever eat. Hunks of beef that melted in your mouth. It was cool becuase I got to cook things and serve food and tea to Willy like it is customery here. The man is served before the woman instead of visa versa like here in the States. As amazing as these dinners were, poor CMCD was getting not only one, but two teeth! He was as squirmy as a toddler could be and it required all of our patience to amuse him and enjoy our experience. Do you know how quiet Japanese people are? That is ok though, I would not trade our time for anything.
When we were done eating, we went back up tour room and our futons were layed out for us. These were the most comfortable beds we had on our entire trip.
After dinner I went down to figure out the onsen. It is a public bath and hot springs. I thought that I would be self conscious there, but I felt amazing bathing in front of petite women. It was a sisterhood, that even though I was a gajiin, foreigner, that I belonged to. You basically go in and sit on a stool and take your sweet time in bathing. Heck, wash 3 times because you have a teething toddler upsatirs! When you are clean, you go into the onsen and just walk in. It is outside in a cliff of the mountain. It was puring outside and pretty dark because the bath was tiled and mostly made of black rock. You just floated in the hot water and your skin is fluorescent white. It was a sensory experience. I chatted with a nice woman, while in there. I practiced my horrible Japanese and she her descent English. I was so grateful to her for being friendly. She even helped me to redress. When she left the onsen, others came in but they ignored me, which was fine because I was leaving anyways. The water was the hottest that I have ever been in. Then you take your sweet time in dressing and doing your hair... Believe me, after all of that you feel pretty emotional and all opened up, I was grateful for bed next to my baby. I tried to wait up for Willy but I just couldn't.




